We are married for almost 14 yrs. been in the swing lifestyle for 5 yrs. We have had some great experiences, some not so great experiences, and some we would LOVE to forget. We are very clear on what we are into, what is allowed, and what is not. he is tall and red hot ;-) she is average height hot blonde. We are ddf & hwp. Looking for the same. We are vague for a reason ... think about it if we tell you everything about us, what do we have to talk about when we meet?

My Ideal Person Looking for???
couples who are HWP, D&D Free,
have AT LEAST a bi female! curious works, if you are serious.

Are what we consider attractive (not what you consider attractive)
know what they want,
what their boundaries are,
the ability to *Gasp sarcastically* - communicate wants/desires (cause hate to be the bearer of bad news but if you can't communicate the lifestyle isn't for you).

if you are only into soft swaps - that's fine
- works for us but you need to inform us this is what you want

if you say you are into full swaps
- works for us... BUT be prepared for what that means (that means Guys, you will watch him penetrate your wife/girlfriend, and hear her moan with pleasure!)

If you just want a couple to hang with, talk dirty with, that's cool too. just gotta tell us!

What we're not looking for:

Single Guys, We know it's not easy, and you're tired of reading it, but we will find you, and are not willing to go through the endless boring emails about how you know what your doing, how you're hung, and thick and hot...

Couples who aren't sure this is what they want or worse, are not capable of announcing their boundaries.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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